Dungeon 101

Fair warning right away... This is going to be a long posting, so i suggest grabbing a cup of cocoa to enjoy along with it...

It is really difficult to know where to begin... It was so amazing... Maybe a couple of days ago...

As i have been writing about, Papa Bear and i are looking for a woman to play with... A third that meshes well with us... Eventually, we want to find a long term relationship, but for now, it is all about having fun and dating others. That being said, i have been sending messages to women on Fetlife to see if they would like to play. i have received a couple of responses, but nothing that has panned out as of yet.

As you know, we have also been taking classes on BDSM topics to see if we could find someone while also obtaining new knowledge. At the 24/7 event, we met a beautiful woman who complimented my dress. We chatted and connected. i have written about this experience in previous posts, but i wanted to include it here because i feel the entire journey is so important to take in context and i want to read this again, maybe 10 years from now and remember...

She and i hit it off right away. We started dating basically. Went out to eat a few times, talked to get to know each other better, texted throughout the day... Probably a little too much in retrospect, but that is just me. i fall for people fast... Not just lovers, but friends too. Once i figure out that something could be amazing, i turn my dial to "i want it" and am kind of tenacious about it... Sometimes to a fault... if someone asked Master's puppy, she would agree and probably add in that sometimes, it is downright annoying, lol...

While dating and chatting, i found out that she had never been with a woman in the threesome sense or the BDSM sense and that i was the first woman she was attracted to enough to want to try it with. HUGE compliment! So we started to set it up... It was a little difficult at first because of my kiddos... Trying to make an  experience like that happen in a safe place was also really important for her as she has never played with us or seen us play together... Thankfully, APEX offers a space like that and offered an amazing class to teach us about their dungeon that included time to play afterward...

Now, we had a place and a time, we just needed to figure out the details... Pre-play negotiations are so important, but also a little difficult to navigate when you have only played with one person and that person is your Master, who basically controls how everything goes. i had to think about limits and boundaries... What i like and don't like... What names are acceptable for me to be called... What areas of my body were of limits... It was a very interesting process for me. Not that i haven't thought about those things at one time or another, but this was different... i had to think of them in context with someone else and not my Papa Bear.

We determined that she was going to top me after watching Papa Bear and i play together for a little bit. This would also help me feel comfortable, because my Papa Bear was there with me. i have only made out with girls in the past, but am bisexual and enjoy the look and feel of women.

We went out to eat before and i was already in my new fun corset, so i barely ate anything. When we got there, we started out with a discussion on the etiquette of playing at a party and what the actual rules are and aren't. It was very informative. We then we're able to see inside the play bags of more experienced members, ask how things work, and where they were purchased for future reference. We

We took another tour of the facility, but it was a little different with the space set up for play and with a scene in mind. Papa Bear saw a couple of places He could potentially use for the scene. When we were done with the tour, the lights went down and some experienced members were doing scenes on the main floor. We watched and chatted for a moment, but i started to get impatient... i was watching for Papa Bear's lead, but He wasn't making any moved and neither was she, so i started whispering to Papa Bear.

It turns out that He was nervous! This kind of surprised me as He was staying fully clothed and i was going to be bearing it all... After speaking with Him longer, i found out that He was nervous for me and wanted to make sure that i had a positive and private experience. i assured Him i was ready and we went to the first place He was interested in.

Under the balcony, there was a space with suspension stuff. We went under there, but the lighting was wrong and it was a little warm. Papa Bear usually gets hot fast, so that area didn't seem like it would work this time. We went to the second place, which is set up as a jail cell. He hooked me to the St. Andrews cross and the 2 of them flogged me.

It was amazing. The feelings were intense and very worth it. Having Him warm me up and then her take over while He kissed me and made sure i was okay... Having Him take over and her come to me asking how i was doing... Having both flog me at the same time... Having both suck on my nipples at the same time... Feeling her nails on my back and her hand smacking my ass... Having 2 people playing with and admiring my naked body... i didn't even think when we started the journey to 3 way play that i would be in the middle, taking it from both sides and absolutely loving it from both sides...

i could not have asked for a better experience. Aftercare was just as amazing, with cuddles from both... Papa Bear rubbed my legs and feet while she rubbed my arms and hands... i really wanted to just stay like that... My naked body tangled in their clothed ones... Having then fawn over me... i never realized that would even be something i would like... And she glowed!! She smiled and her face lit everything up. He smiled and i felt safe and sound. i just want to do it again...