Playing for 4...

Last night was amazing! We had so much fun with Beautiful and another friend of ours, who is vanilla, but very interested in the lifestyle. Let's call him Newbie for now. ;-)

For about a week, Papa Bear, Beautiful, and Newbie have been planning what to do last night. One thing about BDSM play is that preparation and some planning has to be done ahead of time. Someone usually can't just do something on the fly... Even if it is a quick negotiation of safe words... i love that i don't really have to worry about that aspect because of my slave status... Papa Bear negotiates everything for me.

Newbie is actually a really close friend, so i have been worried about playing in front of him. He is one of Papa Bear's closest friends and practically like a brother to me, so i thought it would be weird to be naked in front of him or ordered to do stuff in front of him. What i found out was that it really wasn't. i felt like i could finally just be me, which is someone i usually keep pretty hidden around vanilla people, even really close vanilla friends. People just don't understand why someone would want to wear fluffy fox ears when she is 32 and raising a family. Shocking, right?! lol...

When we got to Beautiful's house, i put on my ears and collar right away. We started eating dinner when Newbie got there. He complimented my ears as we went over to chat and get to know each other a bit... Or at least let Beautiful and Newbie get to know each other. After a little bit, we broke out the suit cases and pulled out supplies.

We started out with flogging and trying different floggers. Papa Bear flogged me and Beautiful to show Newbie how to flog and when he started flogging Beautiful, you could tell that he was a natural. One of the agreements before we played was that he would not be man handling or playing with me. i am Papa Bear's property and see Newbie all the time, so that would have been a little too complicated for me.

i just love watching Beautiful being flogged and seeing her getting flogged by 2 people and being one of the three to play with her at the same time was such an honor... There was a point when she and i got to play with each other face to face while she was being flogged and i was being flogged... It was so awesome!

We also got to play with Papa Bear's new electric equipment. i know Papa Bear loves to torture me with this equipment, so i love that... But that is about all i love about it... Newbie also likes the electric equipment and Beautiful does a much better job than me at taking it. i just love how easy it is to make her orgasm and get her excited.

All together, i would say that it was a good experience. We had fun and got to share a different part of our lives with a friend.